已經翻譯完畢，譯文是紫紅色部分，有興趣的朋友可一閱。
另外學習音樂方面，這一段：
他也喜歡改編樂曲，老師讓他都演奏出來并比較其優劣。
感覺很好，晴寶寶也會這樣做，以前都會忽略掉，其實改編是個感受音樂的好辦法，可以讓她的老師也嘗試下引導她做比較。
首先感謝博友Siee，她非常辛苦的幫忙整理國外星星父母們的聊天記錄并貼過來（因為這邊無法登陸該網站），我們僅在網絡上有偶然一次的相遇，也絲毫沒有提起女兒的情況，siee卻如此古道熱腸，實在令人感動。有了許多像這樣的朋友----他們懷著一顆寬容心一份對生命的愛-----使我備受鼓舞，我想我是對的，我需以愛回報愛。
下面是星媽們的對話，感覺相比我們的情況，他們更陽光更樂觀，少了許多焦慮和絕望。因為我也參加一些QQ群和論壇，相較下的差異還是很明顯的，特別是剛剛在某壇子上看到又一位星星母親墜樓而去（愿逝者安息），更加感慨了。再想想她留在人間的小星星可怎么辦？唉，不說了。。。另外他們看待Autism似乎也更本真，讀之頗有感悟，相信對我以及很多這樣的家庭都十分有意義，非常期待更多的內容------那就麻煩siee常來幫忙貼貼了 
相關的記錄，中英混合，大多數明白，等得空了，都譯出來，有幾處不甚了了，再請教siee了。先問第一個問題：張那實是誰有何典故（網上沒查到呀）？謝謝答疑解惑哈！
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不知道專家咋說。不過只好多帶他游山玩水見識社會。往好里想，他沒準兒能成為超級天才，張那實那樣的人呢。
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我原來以為天才孩子就該是這種形象, 有天賦, 不和群.
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他現在有興趣和人家玩. 問題是玩兒什么.
We do play board games at home.
The improvement is that sometimes, he will hang around other kids, without joining in their play, but laugh and jump with them.
It is soooo hard to teach the someone the most basic stuff. Can you imagine how to teach a kid to say NO? (it took the school and us more than 4 months). But it only took him 2 weeks from the day he started piano lesson to write his first piece of music!
我們在家里下棋。
改善的是，有時，他會跟著別的孩子，雖沒有參與游戲，但會和他們一起大笑和跳躍。
教他最基本的東西難極了。你能想像如何教孩子說不？（教會他花了我們和學校4個月以上）。但他只用了2個星期，就從鋼琴入門課飛越至寫出他的第一部音樂作品！
四維 寫道:
我在那線猜對了。
高功能自閉的特點是樣樣都要教。人家能模仿，他們必須教才行，但好處是能教會的。
他現在有興趣和人家玩嗎？有興趣沒能力可教，沒興趣就難一些。玩電子游戲沒什么用，下棋之類可能更好一些？
引文:
那就一樣樣教他這些事情吧。
朋友有個孩子十幾歲，非常有禮貌，懂事。 他父母說這些都是教出來的， 他原來也有個什么?。ú皇亲蚤]），特殊教育了好些年，現基本正常了。
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We took him travel with us quite a bit. The line between a genius and a fool is very thin. I do not know what he will be.....
我們常帶他旅行。天才和傻瓜之間僅一線之隔，我不知道他的將來會怎樣.....
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可我真不知道該怎么教他和別人說話。這是個非常復雜的概念呢
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What did his music teacher think about his music talent? He seems to be so gifted.
他的音樂老師怎么想他的音樂才華？他似乎如此有天分。
巖雨 寫道:
It only took him 2 weeks from the day he started piano lesson to write his first piece of music!
只用了2個星期，就從鋼琴入門課飛越至寫出他的第一部音樂作品！
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I think you know more about autism than 95% of us already.
Just keep your patience and try your best. I don't think kids just grow out of autism by themselves, but they can improve greatly. You have a very bright child.
There is a 4 year old autistic boy in my son's preschool. I have seen him improve so much. His mom is always in the classroom helping him follow the class routines. She quit her job after the little boy was diagnosed with autism at age of 2.
我想你對自閉癥的了解已經超過我們中的95％。只要保持耐心，盡力而為。我不認為自閉癥孩子能夠自愈，但他們可以有很大改善。你有一個非常聰明的孩子。有一個4歲的自閉癥男孩和我兒子上同一個學前班。我目睹了他的巨大進步。他的媽媽總是在旁輔助他跟上教學安排。小男孩在2歲時診斷為孤獨癥后她就辭職了。
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She is totally amazed by it. She changed his piano books three weeks in a row, from basic kiddy book to "real" sheet music, and by the end of second month, she told me that she can't teach him composing.
My son can easily point out the typos in the music (missing # or b, notes on the wrong position, etc.) He also like to re-arrange the music and the teacher will let him play both to see which arrangement sounds better. He can sign read almost any music by now (he has been taking lessions for about 9 months, Jan to now minus 3 month in the summer) and play songs with complicated rhythms. Right now, his book arranges from level 5-7, and he composes several piece a week (if he feels like it. Sometime, he will not write anything for a few weeks).
He amazes me since he was one year old----on both front....smart end and slow end....
她（孩子的鋼琴老師）感到十分驚訝。她每三個星期就得升級一次他的鋼琴課本，從基礎的幼兒琴書到“真正的”整頁樂譜，并在第二個月底，她告訴我，她已沒有能力教他作曲了。
我的兒子可以輕易指出樂譜中的錯誤（缺少＃升記號或b降記號，或標在了錯誤的位置等），他也喜歡改編樂曲，老師讓他都演奏出來并比較其優劣。他幾乎可以讀任何樂譜（他已經學習了約9個月，1月至現在）并演奏旋律十分復雜的音樂。目前他在學習5-7級的鋼琴課本，每周撰寫幾件音樂小品（如果他覺得喜歡。有時，他也會幾個星期什么都不寫）。
從一歲開始他就讓我感到吃驚------有兩方面：開始時的格外聰慧和現在的發展緩慢....
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凌霄,
I debate a lot whether should I quite my job....
I was home around 3pm (when he finishes school) most of this year. Right now, I found him a sitter who is a special ed teacher in his school(since my company will not let me leave 3:00 pm every day anymore. My son was with me in my office for more than 2 months until I found the sitter).
His school will not let me involved in the classroom. I can't even go observe, except open school days.
My son has improve a lot as well, from can't even answer an yes/no question to have sort of a real conversation with us. But as a parent, you know how parents feel, I still worried that he is be hand.
Yes, we will be patience. The lucky part is that he is a very easy going kid, always cheerful and happy and with a good sense of humor (can you imagine someone who can't really talk being humorous? )
我對是否該辭職討論了很多....
今年大部分時間我是下午3點左右回家（當他放學）?，F在，我替他找了他學校的特教老師來看護他（因為我的公司不同意我每天下午3時下班了。找到保姆前，有2個多月，我的兒子放學后只能和我待在辦公室）
他的學校不允許我陪讀，除了學校開放日我也不能去觀看上學的情況。
盡管我的兒子有很大改善，從不能回答是/否到與我們真正的交談。但作為一個家長，你知道父母的感覺，我還是擔心。
是的，我們應當耐心。幸運的是他是一個很隨和的孩子，永遠快樂，幸福的和富有幽默感（你能想象一個話都說不好的人很幽默嗎？）
家長一點通:
